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Alleluia! Oops sorry, not in Lent

by revruth @ 2007-02-27 - 15:36:06

There is rejoicing (in a sombre Lenten kind of way) today because my little old car has passed its MOT. Well, I say passed when in actual fact I mean failed. But once they had put on a new tyre it passed. So that's not bad. I was sure it was going to be a whole lot worse.

Of course it had to be today that it went in and not yesterday. Yesterday it was glorious sunshine, warm and just right for a stroll along the beach while I waited. Today it is freezing rain. Well, it is Lent after all.

Do you have any other tender?

by revruth @ 2007-02-26 - 15:56:04

Stocking up at the supermarket today trying to remember the list given to me by Son #2 last night. All I can remember is chocolate and crisps but I'm sure there was something more sensible. Bought a few extra toiletries for one of our Lent Appeals (toiletries to young homeless people in The Rock Trust). Got to the check-out, handed over my card and was asked 'Do you have any other tender?'

Eh?
'Do you have another method of payment? This one is no good.'

Oh Lord, don't you just hate that? It hasn't happened to me very often because I do keep a tight record and couldn't understand why this card was refused. The woman behind me looked smug. I looked as if it was all a terrible mistake but not brave enough to ask her to swipe it again.

On the way home I managed to convince myself that I had been the victim of some horrendous internet fraud and someone was spending willy nilly on my card. Drove like a maniac, dashed the shopping to the floor, logged on and checked the account on the computer and all looked well. Phoned the Bank and after inputting a zillion numbers and codes (well remembered!) got through to a human being.

"I've just had my Debit Card refused at the supermarket!"
"You and a million others," she sighed. "The system is down."

Oh that's all right then. No apology though. You know, they could learn a thing from Bishop Ted (see previous blog entry).

I think today should be a day for saying sorry. Repenting, in fact. Oh, isn't that what we're all meant to be doing in Lent?

Bishop apologises

by revruth @ 2007-02-26 - 10:47:17

Heartwarming story... Sorry goes a long way.

Bishop apologizes for vote limiting gay ordinations
Associated Press

LOUISVILLE, Ky. - The bishop of the Episcopal Diocese of Kentucky apologized to gay and lesbian church members after he voted last year not to consent to more ordinations of homosexual bishops.

In his annual report to the diocese's convention Saturday, Bishop Ted Gulick said he's trying to keep the Episcoplan Church together and to maintain ties with other churches overseas amid controversies over homosexuality, The Courier-Journal reported.

"I hereby publicly and deliberately apologize to our devoted gay and lesbian men and woman in our diocese for whom this (latest) vote causes pain and alienation," Gulick said.

Gulick generally supports greater church roles for homosexuals. In 2004, he apologized to conservatives upset over his vote the previous year for the appointment of an openly gay bishop of New Hampshire, V. Gene Robinson.

But last year he voted with other bishops at the Episcopal Church's General Convention not to support further ordinations of homosexual bishops.

"I know you to be my sisters and brothers in Christ," Gulick said, urging them to continue serving in the church in other ways. "I thank you for your patience and forbearance with the church in this season."

Last week, leaders of the Anglican Communion - the Episcopal Church's global partners - issued a stern warning to the American church at a summit in Tanzania. Among other things, Anglican leaders sought greater clarity on the Episcopal Church's stances on homosexual bishops and same-sex unions. A meeting of American bishops is set for next month. Gulick plans to attend.

What am I listening to today?

by revruth @ 2007-02-24 - 16:32:21

Got the new CD by Mika called Life in Cartoon Motion and what a joy it is. Great to bop around to while doing the housework. (Not recommended for writing sermons to.) He has a great voice and it all sounds like a cross between Freddie Mercury and Randy Newman (is he the one that sings stories?).

I love the current single Grace Kelly, and Big Girl (You are Beautiful) is good too. Relax is fab to dance to and Lollipop will have you singing along first time you hear it. All in all it is great Pop.

World Day of Prayer is nigh

by revruth @ 2007-02-24 - 16:08:23

Next Friday, throughout the world, women (and a few brave men) will gather to pray for the people of Paraguay. It used to be just women but now anyone can pray which must be a good thing. It is organised by lay people and a wee service is provided so that we are all doing the same thing.

Well, I say it is organised by lay people. Except at St M's it would appear. The great organiser of this event was going to be away so someone else took over. This dear soul has attended all the preparation meetings and then handed all the stuff over to me to do! And like a mug...

Anyway, at one point in the service you have to get folk to stand up and read wee stories about people in Paraguay. Things like "My name is Angelica. My house is made from cardboard..." or "My name is Mercedes. I am a Nanduti weaver..." A friend of mine was telling me that as a child he was dragged along to one of those events with his mum. At one point a rather matronly looking woman in her 80s stood up and announced "My name is Lola and I am a prostitute and I walk the streets of my city at night..." He said he couldn't understand why nobody laughed apart from him.

Note: You can join in the prayers for the women/people of Paraguay on Friday 3 March at your local church. At St Mark's at 7.30pm. (No laughing though!)

The Primus comments...

by revruth @ 2007-02-23 - 18:23:56

A personal reflection from The Primus on the meeting of Anglican Primates in Dar es Salaam, 15-19 February 2007

Many people will have read with interest the Communiqué from the Primates’ meeting and drawn their own conclusions from it. A document like this is generated within a specific context and usually makes more sense to those who shared in the meeting than it does at first sight to those who read it afterwards .

The meeting was hard work and full of much good news about the development of life in the Communion as a whole, and with details of programmes such as that produced on Theological Education; the proposed major resource on Hermeneutics and on the Christian response to Human Sexuality and not least the way in which the Church will work in partnership to help achieve the Millennium Development Goals which are so vital for economic justice across the world. For example, we learned that Africa does not need new markets to be opened up in order to bring economic growth so much as support for the markets which already exist . I also learned from the new Anglican Observer to the U.N., Mrs Helen Wangusa, that the representatives from the European Union are a very effective lobby group at the U.N., who greatly impress with their sound knowledge of issue at stake in debates.

There is also the proposed development of an Anglican University by the Province of Tanzania, and a whole host of initiatives being made by the Anglican Churches in the world to respond to the needs of the poor and the hungry on every continent . It is of course no more than we ought to be about – but to hear of what is actually happening is humbling and encouraging at the same time.

And what about The Episcopal Church (the one in America that is)? First, a change of name from ECUSA to TEC because Provinces that are part of The Episcopal Church but not actually located within the United States asked for a name that would recognise them as part of the Episcopal family. So this has been done – though there are a number of us who share the title of the Episcopal Church within our own nations.

The position of the College of Bishops, which was shared with our brothers at the Celtic Bishops meeting last October, is unchanged. We believe that given the constraints and unique nature of its composition (two houses for example, not three as we are used to) what the General Convention achieved at its recent meeting was adequate in its response to the requests made of it by the Windsor Report . We have to remember that the meeting in Dar es Salaam is in the wake of the Windsor Report and a discussion about the extent to which its recommendations can be used in the life of our Communion. That discussion is on-going – so that what is set out in the communiqué as a possible way forward to deal with the specific situation in the Anglican Church in the United States is only one further step along a winding and up-hill path. It is in the nature of a temporary solution to allow space for a longer term resolution of the disagreements currently alive in the Communion and not just in the USA.

An image that I have used is that of ‘ecclesiastical inoculation’. That process, as I understand it, introduces something new into a system only in order that in the end the system will itself create the means of healing for itself and within its own circulation. ‘Giving nature a helping hand’ is how it is sometimes described. ‘Giving the Spirit a helping hand’ is what the Primates have sought to do in their suggestions to ease the tension felt in the Communion. Put into two simple statements the tension is that The Episcopal Church has given offence to the Communion in general by its confirmation of the election of the Bishop of New Hampshire; and that other Provinces have caused offence by being willing to give succour to those who within America expressed discomfort at this but who asked to set up their own church . So there are two offended parties – and although one could go on qualifying these positions with nuance and excuse this is basically what it is about. The Primates have together and unanimously offered a plan which seems the one most likely to help in the long run to ease the pain that exists on all sides in America. We do not imagine it to be a pain-free remedy, nor do we regard it as a ‘miracle cure’. It is however an honest attempt to offer a way forward. The journey is not over yet ; but while seeking to respond to this area of concern work goes on across the Communion in the other areas in which there is disagreement so that the gifts that the Anglican Communion have brought, and continue to bring, to the life of the church world-wide may be released.

Coming together in the Cathedral in Zanzibar and celebrating the Eucharist on the very spot where slaves had been beaten and sold was a powerful image of release. The call of the Gospel is to bring release from sin for all and to re-assure each of us of the fact that the experience of God’s love brings the healing and pardon which we all need. It was the gospel imperatives being understood in a new way that led the Church to campaign for the abolition of slavery. As the Archbishop of Canterbury reminded us in his sermon in the Cathedral, new insight leads to innovative action.

Let us pray that the Anglican Communion can be open to new insights and not be afraid to risk new ways of being disciples to Jesus in the world. By the end of 2007 we shall know two new things a) whether the Bishops of The Episcopal Church felt able to move with the Primates, and b) whether those leaders of Provinces in the Communion who have taken over-sight beyond their Provinces felt able to hand the care of those they support to the Communion. In the light of what we shall know then, further provision for the well-being of our Communion will be made.

We remain a Communion - a gift to us from God that often feels we have actually done little to deserve .

+Idris

Bishop of Glasgow and Galloway and Primus

All is clear

by revruth @ 2007-02-21 - 23:29:01

At the optician yesterday and once more I have the gift of sight. And £70 less in the bank. For one lens. Makes you appreciate it all the more.

Lent prayer

by revruth @ 2007-02-21 - 16:48:16

yesterday,
i stuffed myself
on pancakes and pleasure,
on chocolate and self-indulgence;
now,
empty me
of all those delicious desires
which make my life (and soul)
so heavy;

yesterday,
i put on that funny face
i call 'me'
and danced through the streets
of temptation and selfishness;
now,
draw me
into those quiet places
where you can reshape me
as your child;

yesterday,
i wore a costume
bejeweled with pride's glitter,
and rainbowed with my silly sins;
now,
clothe me
in prayer
and smudge my face
with your heart's tears;

yesterday,
i chased after the world
into death;
now,
lead me into life
this Lent.

(c) 2007 Thom M. Shuman

Thom
Thom M. Shuman
Greenhills Community Church, Presbyterian Cincinnati, Ohio

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Lenten facial scrub

by revruth @ 2007-02-21 - 15:12:54

How about this for an idea? A Lenten Facial Scrub made from ground ashes and oil of chrism mixed together. A wee bit of suffering, I grant you, but that's all part of the lenten thing. I reckon there's a market for it.

Response from Primates

by revruth @ 2007-02-20 - 11:09:04

You can check out The Communique of the Primates' meeting in Dar es Salaam here :
http://www.thinkinganglicans.org.uk/

You have to read to almost the last page before you will find out what we really wanted to know and it is not good news for our homosexual sisters and brothers.

It reads :
'...the House of Bishops ... make an unequivocal common covenant that the bishops will not authorise any Rite of Blessing for same-sex unions in their dioceses or through General Convention'
and
'...a candidate for episcopal orders living in a same-sex union shall not receive the necessary consent'
'unless some new consensus on these matters emerges across the Communion.'

There is also to be provision for some sort of alternative primatial ministry in ECUSA.

There is also a lot of concern expressed for "those groups alienated," which is clearly intended to be a reference to the extreme conservatives, yet not one note of concern for our gay and lesbian brothers and sisters.

So it would seem that the conservatives must be rejoicing this morning. Those who shouted loudest have had their voices heard and obeyed.

We who thought that attitudes could be changed by listening and caring and praying without being militant and aggressive have been cast aside. Gay people will once more be forced underground into a community of lies and half-truths. Is that right?

Gay couples can have a Civil Partnership (or Marriage in Canada) but the Church cannot officially offer a blessing for them. That is really going to encourage people to come to Church! So it seems like an inclusive church is a long way off. However, I believe that blessings will happen in secret and at great risk to sympathetic clergy trying to be pastoral.

God help us.

From silence to mayhem

by revruth @ 2007-02-19 - 18:32:28

Well, the silence last night (see previous blog entry) was shortlived and today the madness begins that is the run-up to Lent. So far my to-do list contains:

buy lemon for Ash Wednesday
prepare ashes for AW
design 2 sets of pew sheets for AW (one trad, one mod)
write sermon for AW
prepare wedding prep stuff for meeting on Tue
find 5 Lent Group speakers
design pew sheets for first Sunday in Lent
Write sermons for Lent 1
prepare Confirmation material for Sunday
write a few thank you letters and other wee notes
prepare for Mission & Ministry Committee meeting on Thu
Email notices out to congregation
have a glucose intolerance test

Well, I'd better get on with it then.

Still no news from Tanzania and the Primates meeting. Wish I could believe 'no news is good news'.

Into Great Silence

by revruth @ 2007-02-19 - 10:05:04

Last night G and I went to see Into Great Silence and what a marathon it was! Nearly 3 hours long and most of it in complete silence (apart from the rustling of sweety papers from the group behind us).

The visuals were exceptional including the ones which looked as if they had been taken with a mobile phone. Images which have stuck in my mind include: prayer; a young man applying ointment to an old man; prayer; shaving heads; prayer; monks sliding down a snow slope amidst laughter; prayer; making habits; prayer; bread and fruit; prayer; the sacrament; prayer; darkness and shadows; prayer; cells and solitude; prayer; digging snow; prayer; a blind monk happy in the love of God; prayer; cats; prayer; dripping water and an argument about ritual; and prayer.

I liked it. No, I loved it. And so did G, thank goodness, because I had dragged him along and you really don't want to inflict 3 hours of torture on a friend.

Carthusians are supposed to be the most austere order and I know I wouldn't last 5 minutes. However, it is good to know that they are out there doing all that praying.

The Verdict

by revruth @ 2007-02-18 - 16:26:49

Did anyone out there watch The Verdict last week on BBC2? I recorded it and somehow lost the last five minutes of the last episode. Did we ever find out exactly what did happen, or what the actors were told happened?

Question of the day

by revruth @ 2007-02-18 - 15:40:20

Here's a question for you...

If you were tidying the church and came across a box containing batteries plugged in and recharging would you unplug it and tidy it away by wrapping the flex round it?

Hence, this morning's service was taken by me shouting.

Quiet Day

by revruth @ 2007-02-17 - 18:45:55

Today I led a Quiet Day for some Companions to the Society of St Francis. It was mostly quiet.

Prayer bonanza

by revruth @ 2007-02-12 - 10:19:30

You know when you agree to do something, reluctantly, and put it in your diary and then forget all about it until someone says, "I'll see you on Saturday" and you smile and say "Yes, of course" whilst secretly wondering what on earth they are talking about. And of course you agreed to it when your eyes were just fine and dandy and when you looked in your diary regularly and would have known when something was coming up and would read and read to prepare. But now of course you are still limited to large print and scarcely glancing at the diary, especially on a day where 4 items are squeezed into that wee space that the Parson's Pocketbook provides for each day, and you'd overlooked the Quiet Day that you are leading for the Companions of the Society of St Francis.

So this week, guess what, I shall be praying very sincerely for inspiration for some pre-Lenten and Franciscan inspiration, which doesn't involve reading books.

I shall also be praying for the Primates meeting in Tanzania that some may cast aside their childish playground behaviour and learn to love one another, as He loved them.

Harvey comes to Chez Innes

by revruth @ 2007-02-10 - 12:03:57

Yesterday I became the proud owner of Harvey (aka Navman SatNav). He came to me from Fr Kirstin who has no need of such things, being an instinctive and v confident driver. But Mr Kirstin had this one until he got a new car with one installed. They have very kindly donated Harvey to me, knowing that I have no sense of direction whatsoever and have only been able to visit them once, and that took hours longer than it should have done.

Harvey was named after an incident when he was ignored, I think. Echoes of the wonderful James Steward movie involving a large white rabbit.

So today I am going to be learning the ins and outs of having a man tell me where to go. It's been a while.

Snow gargoyle

by revruth @ 2007-02-09 - 10:50:43

check out Ruth Gledhill's blog for a pic of a snow gargoyle made at Hereford Cathedral. Good comment too.

http://timescolumns.typepad.com/gledhill/2007/02/walking_in_the_.html

Let it snow

by revruth @ 2007-02-08 - 11:04:13

I heard on the weather forecast yesterday that snow was on the way, but not for Scotland. Guess what? They were wrong.

Update on the peepers

by revruth @ 2007-02-06 - 13:47:15

For those of you interested in the after-effects of the cataract removal...

The old eye is improving day by day. Not so red or scratchy and I am even getting quite good with the eyedrops - though not always accurate! It doesn't particularly like fluorescent light or draughts (hot or cold) and sometimes feels like closing by evening.

Reading is still a big problem but is getting better so I am hopeful that it won't be long before I can read normally again. Manage more each day with the magnifiers but it is a bit of a strain.

And I can't wait until I can get the old mascara and under-eye concealer back out again.

(I should add that this setback is not normal for folk getting their cataracts removed. Most folk improve much quicker than I have.)

Martyrs of Japan

by revruth @ 2007-02-06 - 13:38:20

Today we remember the Martyrs of Japan. I'm afraid to say that I was not aware of them but found this website http://www.baobab.or.jp/~stranger/mypage/martyr.htm

Prayer
O God our Father, source of strength to all your saints, who brought the holy martyrs of Japan through the suffering of the cross to the joys of life eternal: Grant that we, being encouraged by their example, may hold fast the faith we profess, even to death itself; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen

Nun's Story

by revruth @ 2007-02-04 - 11:35:39

Yesterday I watched the Nun's Story with Audrey Hepburn - gosh, she is beautiful even with a wimple. It is a film of it's time and the scenes in the Congo are atrociously patronising. In fact it gave me lots to think about regarding overseas mission work - and not all good.

At the end of it all she decides not to stay as a nun, preferring to be a nurse. Mother Superior, who by the way is described to her as Christ's representative in the convent - so why do the RC church have such a problem with women priests? Mother Superior tries to persuade her to stay but once she is convinced that she has made up her mind, the frosty face takes over and Sister Luke is made to sign a document, given her father's dowry back and told to go to a room where her clothes are. No fond farewells, no kind words, no counselling, just banishment. "Ring the bell when you are ready and the door will be opened."

This is Hollywood, I kept thinking to myself. Drama, that's all. But then a friend phoned who has recently come out of a convent. "It's just like that," she said, "but worse." No dowries nowadays to be handed back to help you on your way. Still no counselling or support offered. No help given.

And that friend did get a job as a hospital chaplain but is still struggling financially to cope with furnishing a house, buy a car, clothe herself, pay council tax and everything else that life has thrown at her.

The Church needs to do something about this. We are not good at looking after our clergy and those in religious orders, at caring for them pastorally. Who helps the helpers? What they need is a half-way house. Any offers?

There, that's my rant for the day over.

Quote for the day

by revruth @ 2007-02-02 - 10:38:05

I have been enjoying the programme about Helen House, the hospice for children set up by Sister Dominica in Oxford.

This week a woman was talking about the death of her son. She said that Sister Dominica had said some kind words which had helped her. Here they are:

The depth of your sorrow
is the height of your joy.

Another film and other stuff

by revruth @ 2007-02-01 - 12:50:05

Still catching up on films I haven't had time to watch. Yesterday it was Kingdom of Heaven. A good old knight's tale. And Orlando Bloom was seriously cute in it.

Also watched the new series of CSI. No mention of the bedroom scene which finished the last series. We want to know!

Sort of missing Celebrity Big Brother in a kind of car-crash voyeurism sort of way. I do love watching people and of course all the big stories were in this series. Still not sure that there was any more bullying or bitchiness in this one than there has been in the past. The only difference this time was the race question and the media rottweilers chewing it all up. But sadly a reflection of real life.

Enjoyed the new episode of 'celebrities' working as Auxiliary Nurses. I did that for a few years in Simpsons Maternity Hospital and all I got to do was clean incubators, run around with blood samples, empty bins and answer the phone. I certainly did not get to bath babies or indeed help to deliver them. Guess you have to be a 'celebrity' to do that.

All very enjoyable but I'd still rather be able to read. And get back to work.

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